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bella went from absolutely loving baths to finding them acceptable to loathing them to the point that if water touches her skin she will shriek in a mad terror that brings the neighbors to our windows, hands cupped to the glass.
most recently she went on a three day jag of refusing to bathe. to put her in forcibly, while an option, was to put yourself in harms way. three days is a long time for an american to not bathe, especially when they live in my home. and especially when they pass the time playing games called DIRT and WORMS.
before having children marty vowed to not have one of those soiled and buger encrusted toddlers that other people were afraid to touch or be touched by. 86 hours into the water fast i asked marty about this missive. she half raised a hand in dismissal. upon seeing this gesture my mind placed this parental ideal in the junk drawer, next to 'will not throw food in restaurants' and on top of 'will not play in own feces' (that's one of my own).
hours later marty was sleeping in some part of the house. i in another with alex on my chest. i was stirred from sleep by someone poking me in the arm and talking to me. i began nodding in agreement and handing the remote over and promising to handle it, whatever it was, later if i could just snooze for five more minutes. bella continued to speak and i continued to lie there with closed eyes:
dad, i don't need to take a bath tonight.
bella, you haven't had a bath in three days
but ...
skipping tonight would make it four, so no deal.
but, i put special scasoli on so i don't need to.
you put what on?
i put special scasolee on so i don't need to.
what is scasolee?
no dad. vascolee?
bella, i don't know what you're saying.
vascoleen dad. vascoleen!
what? Vaseline?
yes. dad. i put Vaseline on.
where?
everywhere.
(i squint my eyes open to see bella naked and every visible shred of skin shiny, slick. and i'm talking from hairline to the tops of her feet.)
ok bella, go tell your mother.
ok dad.
(as she turned to leave i could see that even her backside had sludgy streaks of petroleum coating it.)
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